That green-eyed monster is scary af
When you really think about it, the fact that someone can just look at you & resent you for no reason is literally frightening to say the least! Some never even have to meet you to form a skewed opinion about you. They can gather information…now… from social media and develop their own narrative in their head about you that suits their interest. Then you’ve got those who have met you or encountered you and came to their own fabricated conclusion about you so that they feel comfortable begrudging you. Either way, the amount of anger and energy that envy holds is nothing but hate. So let’s just call a spade a spade. And at the end of the day… I can’t relate.
Let’s not forget also about the people who have known you all along, but you outgrow the “Box” that they’ve once put you in. So now they’ve grown envious towards you. Now that envy right there, has got to be the most scariest of them all. Because I can respect a mf that keeps their distance from me and is upfront about their aversion for me. But those people who secretly hate you and keep you around so that they can sabotage your life… cringe! It’s like, “Girl when did you start not liking me?” I be so confused and blind-sided at the same time.
We need to pray these people up out of our lives because they are high-risk. They certainly aren’t good for our well-being and health. Secret animosity is just like playing with fire. But any type of jealousy and envy is detrimental to your existence. Just think of the people who have lost their lives to these stalkers (because that’s exactly what they are for real). They pay you extra- attention (keep a watchful eye) while trying to copy and/ or disrupt your blessings. Yolanda Saldivar type people!
My thing is, these people need to be mad at God and take their beef up with our higher power. Anything you have and everything you are comes from HIM. So why are they even mad at you to begin with? I’ve asked this question so many times and the truth is… I’ll never get the answer I’m looking for because… as I said… I cannot relate.
I’ve never been a hater. For as long as I can remember, I’ve wished people well. And if I don’t care for someone, then I’m not wishing them anything at all because I’m not ever focused on them. If someone has something that I want, I understand that I have work to do in order to get the thing or the desire. It takes work! I pray that God blesses me with said desire. And my prayer must include that “If it’s for me, then I’ll have it. But if it’s not for me, then it’s not in the cards. Amen”. I know that HE will send me what’s for me and sometimes… even something better! Because I understand that sometimes I might think that I know what I want, but GOD ultimately knows what I need. But never do I wish that the thing was taken away from someone else and instead given to me!
Envy is devilish. It’s demonic behavior and a tantrum of some sort. Why can’t everyone just appreciate some beauty that they witness (in whatever/whoever it is) without coveting it for themselves and just enjoy it? Enjoy the views! Pull inspiration from it! Envy is so corny. I can write for days on the topic, but the reality is that it’s been around forever and it’s not going anywhere. So we have to learn to dodge it, steer clear of it, recognize when it’s in people and move accordingly. Take this moment and pray for GOD to remove the haters and enemies out of your life. And the biggest takeaway is to NOT be surprised/shocked when you start losing some familiar faces.
I’m not gon’ hold you. These jealous people are weird. The evil eye is upon us and there is no amount of good you can do to turn these folks around. In fact, sometimes they treat you worse the nicer you are to them because how dare you be blessed and a blessing to others right?(insert sarcasm) But the solution is that once you peep it… get them out of your life for good like your life depends on it! Because it does!